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An average type of girl
Sweet 16, Single Mingle, Pisces
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Haisian <3
Pink is my sexiest color &hearts
Sunday, 11 January 2009 @4:19 pm
I was bloghopping and I found this quite useful and interesting though.
For those, who've been hurt or needs a new environment, you may
try to follow these helpful tips yeahhh .
Good luckkkk ~! ^^
Your 5-step recovery plan ;
1) Mope
Go ahead, put on comfy sweats, then make this promise to yourself: "I'm
going to give myself five days to watch crappy movies, eat ice cream
and feel heartbroken. Then, I'm going to start feeling better."
Telling yourself that you'll get through this gives you, not him to control
your feelings.
2) Ignore him
Talking to him might seem helpful. ("I just want to hear his voice!")
but it only reopens the wound. So delete his number and remove him
from your Facebook/Friendster/Myspace friends list. ( You can try to
be friends later, after you've moved on. )
3) Clean up
Get rid of anything that reminds you of him. If you can't bear to trash
it for good, give it to a friend, so you don't have to see it on a daily basis.
(She can give it back when you both agree you're over him. ) If you have stuff
he needs back, ask her to return them for you.
4) Stay busy
Pinpoint the times you miss him the most(do you still listen for that last
text before you fall asleep ?) and fill them with something else : Re-read
Twilight, listen to Paramore or whatever. If you keep yourself distracted,
the sadness will eventually fade on its own.
5) Flirt
You don't want to jump into anything while you're still getting over your ex,
but flirting with new guys is a great way to keep your mind off your
heartache. Start by asking a cute guy friend to take you to dinner. Even a non-date
will remind you that there are better guys out there !
Its time for some tough love.
These truths are hard to hear-but facing them now will help you get
over him faster in the long run.
He's not going to call/sms you.
So stop obssessively checking your phone. If you can't put it down, call
your best friend and talk to her instead.
You will never know why you got dumped.
Trying to figure it out or replaying certain moments that you wish you'd
done differently will drive you insane. Tune our chatter by listening to
Miley's 7 things or your favourite break-up song instead.
BUT... you will find a better guy. (:
You may feel like no one will ever love you the way he did, but everyone
feels that way after a split and everyone moves on. Ask mum/friends to tell
you her best "worst break-up story" for proof ( and to get your mind off your
own drama for a while.)
Well, it all depends in ourselves which makes it a difference after all.
(:
Btw, a very good luck fr those who will be taking O'lvl results tmro (!)
Esp : Atiqahh sweetheartt, Bestt buddyy & Matrepp Cuzzin gyeahh .
All th bestttt loved ones .
:D
N's is like around the corner.
And I've yet to get it prepared.
I really have to study seriously.
I've learned that things change, people change and feelings does change .
And it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up ; it simply means that you
moved on and treasure the memories.
Letting go doesn't mean giving up.
It means accepting that somethings are not meant to be.